Patience might not grow on a tree, but it does grow. Patience grows like trees. It must be planted long before it is ever needed for shade or fruit. It grows over time, not overnight.
We’ve discussed patience in terms of with others, with God and with ourselves as well as how patience extends from unmet expectations.
Today, we are going to take a look at a second truth about patience.
Truth Number TWO: Patience is something you decide to do long before you ever need it.
As we have been doing, let’s look at this in the context of each of the categories we have laid out.
First, with others. If we developed patience within ourselves, and started working on our attitudes, when we get into situations that really get under our skin with other people, we may be able to recognize in the moment a better way to respond and handle the situation.
Second, with God. Now, we know that our God has the ability to answer our prayers and create change in our lives. We also know that He is good and is working for our good. If we decide now that patience is vital in our relationship with God, and make the decision to always acknowledge that His ways are higher than our own, it may make it easier for us to find perspective in the moments where we are losing our patience with God.
Finally, with ourselves. We need to decide to believe daily that we are beloved children of God, made in the image of God, with a good purpose given by God. If we truly believe this about ourselves, we wouldn’t be as hard on ourselves. So next time you feel impatient with yourself whatever the case may be, remind yourself of who you are and Whose you are, adn extend patience and grace to yourself.
We need to choose patience. Patience isn’t something we can easily conjure up the moment we need it, but it must be something that is formed and cultivated within us.
Patience has much to do with expectations and attitude. If we can be aware of the root of our impatience, we can move closer to a life in step with the Spirit.
May we begin the journey of cultivating patience.
It’ll take time but will be worth it.
So, how can you grow in patience today?
Thanks for being patient with us through this series. If “Patience Grows Like Trees” was encouraging or insightful for you in any way, please let us know and consider sharing it with someone else.
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Hello, friends! My name is Haleigh! I am studying Pastoral Ministry at Bethel University. One of the most prominent passions in my life is women’s ministry. I have such a heart for women and helping them see how God created us for such an intentional purpose. Read more of my writing here.
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